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This has to be one of my favourite locations that I’ve shot at along with the post that will follow this one. You’ll see! Cemeteries are such peculiar places that carry a certain weight to them yet hold an undeniable pulchritude. This was shot at Père Lachaise Cemetery in Paris and although there is a particular heaviness when walking through its maze it is rather romantic and incredibly captivating. You could say I’ve always been enchanted by the darker side of life, aware of the strong duality that lives in us all. My interest with the supernatural began at a young age and entering my teenage years I became fascinated with tarot cards and the occult. I’ve always been a very highly sensitive being, some would call me overly emotional but as a natural empath and unfortunately at times a sponge for others energy it can be overwhelming to feel it all in this vessel of mine. As far as I can remember, I’ve always believed in spirits and otherwordly things but it wasn’t until I entered adolescence, particularly around the ages of seventeen and eighteen that I started to notice my encounters with the dead.
Over the last couple years I’ve had many experiences with spirits and have opened my energy up to this world even though it is extremely terrifying at times. Whenever I do sense energies, they do not manifest themselves into an apparition that is visible but regardless of that for the most part, I can still identify who they are in terms of their name, gender, occupation, if they are a child, adolescence, elderly etc. The only times I’ve actually seen a spirit manifest themselves was when I was twelve visiting a historical building in Montreal, when my angels, who’re my two great grandparents and my uncle speak to me, a negative entity that lived in my boyfriend’s old flat and a not-so-friendly encounter with an entity I experienced last summer.
I know I speak about 2015 a lot, and I feel that for many, myself included was a rather arduous one that knocked us all off our natural trajectory and lead us astray only to leave bits and pieces to be recovered from the wreckage. Last summer was really traumatic and I experienced a shit ton of health problems and slipped into an extremely destructive state of depression that caused me to become so far removed from myself that I was convinced was impossible to escape. During this time there was one night where I was home alone and all of a sudden felt something else in the room with me. I can’t totally express into the words the sensation that was about to overcome me but it felt like the worst kind of fear was swallowing the room up, injecting every sort of negativity into every space and crevice and I was slowly being engulfed into the midst of it. I SHIT YOU NOT I felt this presence standing right in front of me legit trying to encompass my entire being. From my knowledge of the supernatural it almost felt I was being possessed. This entity was extremely negative and I could see it being cloaked in absolute darkness with its eyes peering right at me. I can’t even talk about this without my skin crawling but even though this was extremely fucking terrifying and I was scared shitless I just held onto myself, with some of my favourite crystals in my hand, shut my eyes and tried to visualize the best I could a radiant white light surrounding me. Many mediums, empaths, and witches speak about white light as a means of purification and protection. It is super critical when dealing with spirits as well as sending it out into the Universe from your body. When this was happening, I could feel my angels and spirit guides by my side to help me against this entity which needless to say was an absolute blessing. I probably meditated for almost an hour until I felt this awful presence leave. I can’t even begin to tell you the amount of fear that was rising in me during all of this and the feeling of having something that is not a part of you in any way try and take ahold of you. What is important to remember when dealing with more malicious spirits is that they feed off negativity and especially fear. The other side of the spectrum is always love, which is why it is so essential to come // speak from your heart space and try the best we can to project love out instead of hate, anger, frustration and fear.
After this incident about two weeks later it happened again where I felt the presence try to engulf me. This time out of panic I decided to call my dad as if I knew he would be of assistance (both my sister and my father possess the same psychic abilities as me but have chosen not to engage with the spirit world like I have). If anything you should know, my family is rather peculiar and the dialogue surrounding energy and otherwordly existence has never been dismissed but always welcomed and discussed. It is not your every day phone call when you hear, “Dad I think I’m being possessed by a spirit and I don’t know what the fuck to do.” He advised me to try and remain calm the best I can and know that I was stronger than this presence even though the entity made me think other wise. He told me to use the visualization of white light like I had previously used and to embody love because if I lean into fear it allows the entity to become stronger and worst, take over my body.
Ever since the encounter with the entity I have tried my absolute best to maintain a positive mindset and emanate loving vibes although needless to say it’s taken me a couple months to regenerate and I finally feel like the worst is over. Since the incident, I have definitely closed myself off to the spirit world because of how petrifying that experience was but have been slowly regaining confidence in my abilities. To this day I still do not exactly know what that was or who it was except that it wanted to cause harm and devour my light. From what I gather, because I was vibrating at an extremely low frequency due to my mental, emotional and physical well being during this point in my life I believe that it created holes within my aura and because of my severe negative self-talk it developed into negative thought forms that allowed themselves to manifest and latch onto my aura. Quite possibly it was a combination of the negative thought forms I had created myself and another entity outside of myself that made itself comfortable within my aura.
“Thoughtforms can be described as energetic patterns that exist within our aura, and they are created by our own thoughts. You could say that thoughtforms are the spiritual equivalent to computer programs, and sub-routines, as they will keep running the same programme until the time where an intent and focus is made (by you) to change them. Thoughtforms are created over time, and are the energetic equivalent of schemas (deeply held beliefs). If there is a very strong activating event, that happens only once; such as the trauma of a car accident, or rape, then, because of the strength of the emotions, a powerful thoughtform will be created. Or if over a number of years, an experience happens daily of being undermined in small, subtle ways, such as the dynamics that can occur in families, then again, due to the dripping tap of emotion, a large pool of energy is created for the thoughtform to grow big and strong. So then, here we have the situation of a thoughtform living happily (maybe not for you) in your aura, creating the reality of the belief that is at the core of its existence, and feeding off the energy that it co-creates with the world around.” (More information about thoughtforms here)
When you’re in an intensely despondent state of mind it makes it easy for entities to attach themselves to your aura and you become a channel that allows them to breed. Although my experience may not entirely fall under the category of possession I believe that had I not made the active change within myself to become and think more positively and protect my aura I most definitely would have. Prior to these incidents, I developed certain symptoms such as thoughts that did not belong to myself, I felt another voice speaking in my head which just sounds absolutely fucked, and I started feeling like I was constantly being watched when I was alone and started seeing shadows more frequently. In conjuction with these symptoms, I was being extremely self-destructive and running from my trauma instead of addressing it which, was the main catalyst in this whole circumstance and lowered my vibration even further.
I know I’m not an expert in any way when it comes to dealing with energies and entities but looking back at how awful and excruciating that period of my life was in comparison to now, I’ve come a long way and I believe is a real testament to my strength that I had blindly forgotten and misplaced. As a natural empath, I only ever choose to use my abilities for love and compassion and to only practice white magic. I know the whole ‘witch aesthetic’ has become a part of street style and there’s been a substantial interest in this new age lifestyle shit and I am not opposed to anyone wanting to become more knowledgeable in the field and using their powers for good but I will put my foot down on the whole ouija board obsession. Of course, the board itself is exceptionally mystifying and intriguing but there are some things in this world that are just not meant to be fucked with. EVER. I have not and will never use one because what most people don’t understand is that this isn’t just some silly board game where you can contact your loved ones or maybe have a chill spirit hang out, you are literally opening up a portal where the spirits who come through disguise themselves as loved ones or seemingly friendly ghosts. They are shapeshifters, negative entities and even worst demons that will do anything to have a taste of the real world and will manipulate you into thinking otherwise about their true identity. I cannot reiterate enough how dangerous this device is when it is -i hate to say it- disgustingly glamourized. This is some real black magic shit. Don’t be a fool because life’s a fucking trip and the world is crazy but who the fuck wants to deal with demonic beings? HELL NO. NOPE. NO THANK YOU.
Just to clarify, I haven’t had any experiences as of late with the entity since last summer and I’m proud to say I’m currently in a pretty good state of mind and actually content for once, which sounds surprising when I say that to myself because it’s probably been eons since I’ve felt at peace with myself. It is so crucial to protect your aura and practice love and compassion not just to others but especially with yourself. Take care of your heart, and tend to your thoughts, allow fear to be felt but don’t let it consume you, be kind and if something is fucking with your vibe get rid of it.
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